As the sun sets earlier and kids try to get back into the swing of the school year, artificial intelligence has become a major factor in back-to-school conversations. AI tools have become increasingly common in classrooms and at home, making it more important than ever for families to establish healthy expectations before the first homework assignment arrives.
AI in the classroom has become a polarizing topic of conversation in parenting and academic circles. Almost all recognize its utility and risks for students due to its resources and convenience.
“AI itself is not inherently good or bad. What matters is how students use it," said Marcy Shyllon, Executive Director of Boys Town New England. “Parents can help children understand that these tools should support their learning, not do the learning for them.”
When AI Stops Being a Learning Tool
Artificial intelligence presents a unique challenge for students. It is a great tool for brainstorming ideas, creating study plans, and diving deep into difficult concepts and subjects.
However, AI becomes a problem when it begins replacing the learning process instead of supporting it. It can:
- Eliminate original ideas
- Replace critical thinking
- Complete school assignments
- Become a crutch instead of a tool
As Shyllon emphasized, “If AI helps a student think more deeply, it can be useful. If it removes the need to think, it is no longer helping them learn.”
Parents are encouraged to research, start conversations about, and set expectations for AI use with their kids before the school year begins.
Helping Your Child Use AI Responsibly
Parents can encourage students to:
1. Use AI For the Right Reasons
AI is a powerful tool for organization, planning, and brainstorming—use it to design study plans and engage with concepts in a deeper way.
2. Retain Agency
Encourage kids to complete their own writing and problem solving, allowing them to naturally work through issues, make mistakes, and seek feedback.
3. Check the AI’s Credibility
AI-generated information isn't always accurate. Teach your child to verify facts using trusted books, educational websites, and reliable sources.
4. Demonstrate Understanding
After using AI to explore a topic, encourage your child to explain what they learned in their own words.
5. Emphasize Transparency
Help your child understand the importance of being honest about how they use AI. If a teacher allows AI assistance, students should know when it's appropriate to acknowledge that it helped them brainstorm or organize ideas while still completing their own work.
6. Follow the Teacher’s Instructions
Encourage your child to carefully read assignment instructions and ask questions if they're unsure whether AI is permitted.
Preparing Children for an AI-Powered Future
Artificial intelligence is likely to remain a part of students' educational experiences for years to come. Rather than avoiding it altogether, parents have an opportunity to teach children how to use these tools thoughtfully and responsibly.
By setting clear expectations, encouraging curiosity over convenience, and reminding children that AI should support—not replace—their own thinking, families can help students develop habits that will benefit them both inside and outside the classroom.